Deaf and blind dogs

By Debbie Bauer I’m always amused when people find out my dogs are deaf. One of their first questions is, “Do they bark?” Oh yes, and boy, can they bark! Some deaf dogs have a very high-pitched bark. Some have … Continue reading →

via How to Teach Your Deaf (and Blind) Dog to be Quiet — The Pet Professional Guild

How kids can overcome a fear of dogs.

Ways to Help Your Child Overcome a Fear of Dogs.

First, understand your child’s fear. …
Then, watch what you say. …
Take puppy steps. …
Meet an adult dog, not a puppy. …
Learn a little doggish. …
Search out dressed-up dogs. … not overly dressed at all.
Petting a pooch. …
Prepare for the sniff and lick.

The doggone reality? Not so much.

“She’ll go up to people walking their dogs and ask if she can pet them,” but as she puts her hand out, if the dog’s muzzle gets anywhere near, she yanks it away and hides behind her mom.


Lots of kids happily run up to strange pooches and grab them in bear hugs — much to the horror of mom and dad — so what’s behind the fear of dogs in some kids, and what can you do.

Why Do Some Kids Have a Fear of Dogs?

Kids are wildly different. Some rough-house, others read; some take off on adventures, and others fear new and challenging things. “These children are more sensitive to stimulating experiences,” says Tracy A. Dennis, PhD, associate professor in the department of psychology at Hunter College, the City University of New York, “and so have a lower threshold for feeling distress when they encounter something new or unexpected.”


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It’s definitely the unknown and unexpected that contributes to a fear of dogs, says Linda P. Case, MS, adjunct assistant professor at the University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine.Maybe mom and dad haven’t talked to their child about dogs, or that child has had little exposure to one.

Other times the reasons for a child’s fear are clearer. “A lot of parents teach their kids to avoid dogs,” I see parents teaching kids that dogs are scary.”

Dogs Are Afraid of Kids, Too

Children aren’t alone in their fears; sometimes the problem is magnified because dogs can be afraid of children, too.


“A lot of kids,  especially mobile kids under age 5 or 6. “They do all the things dogs think are impolite. They’re right at eye level, so they stare. They scream and yell. They flail their arms. And at that age they move in a very stop-and-start erratic way.”

So how can you help fearful kids (and dogs) to meet ?

First, understand your child’s fear. Spiders, snakes, public speaking — most of us are a little unnerved by something. And although our logic tells us a tiny bug or a short speech won’t actually hurt us “fear isn’t rational, “so rational talk isn’t going to help you through your fear.” That means the first step to helping your child overcome fear of dogs is to recognize and accept that that fear is there.
Then, watch what you say. Be sure you’re not unintentionally creating — or reinforcing — a child’s fear of dogs with the words you choose. “I’ve heard people say well-intentioned but awful things to their kids,”  “Things like, ‘Pet that dog under his chin, or else he might bite you,’ or a parent will tell their child to ask a stranger ‘Does your dog bite?'” Words have great power to inform a child’s view of dogs as dangerous, or as new friends to meet, so choose your words carefully.
Take puppy steps. There’s no reason to rush your child into face-to-face doggy introductions. You don’t need to force them to be around dogs right away, “That may backfire and just increase your child’s fear.” Instead, gradually introduce your child to dogs, starting with picture books, TV, movies, then from a distance, perhaps in a park or sitting outside a pet supply store. “Gradually increase the intensity of the exposure,”but be sensitive to whether any one step is too much for your child. If it is, go back to the previous step.” Pelar, author of Living with Kids and Dogs…Without Losing Your Mind, shares this opinion. “The biggest mistake I find people make is not going at the child’s own pace. We need to let them set the pace, let them say when they’re ready to go closer.”
Meet an adult dog, not a puppy. When your child is ready for that next step — getting closer — find a mellow, adult dog to start with, not a puppy. Like little kids, puppies are unpredictable, wiggly, excitable, and when they’re very young “they still have the mouthiness going on,” and “the last thing you want is for a puppy to run up and give your child a little nip.” You can also look for a group that does doggy meet and greets, or reading programs where therapy dogs go into libraries. “Situations like that where the child isn’t immediately forced to interact are very helpful.”
Learn a little doggish. In these early interactions, you’ll have lots of time to teach your child about canine communication. Dogs don’t have a verbal language, so they communicate with facial expressions and body postures.” For example, look for that famous doggy smile, which is “mouth open, lips pulled back, tongue sort of lolling, no tension in the face. t looks similar to our smile and it’s an invitation to interact and can be interpreted the same way as you would a smile in humans.” To help your child learn these cues, look at a book of photos of dogs, and ask your child ‘What’s that dog feeling? “Then go to a park and do the same thing, look at dogs and talk about them. That’s how I’d start.”
Search out dressed-up dogs. As silly as it sounds, kids (and adults) are often far less fearful of canines in clothes, so be sure to point out dressed-up pooches to your child. “I found that if I dress my dogs in bandanas, or put their therapy vests on, it makes a huge difference for kids ,And it works for adults too — the brighter the clothes the better! I always put a bandana on the dog if we do school visits. Something about the clothing just makes people more likely to approach.”
Petting a pooch. Once your child is ready to take the plunge and touch a dog, it’s a good idea to keep the pooch occupied and let your child pet the dog’s body instead of the more-intimidating head. “You don’t want the dog looking at your child because the dog’s face is what tends to be scary to kids,


Prepare for the sniff and lick. When a child is ready to let the dog interact “parents need to understand that dogs check you out by sniffing you, so make sure your little one is prepared. “Tell your child ‘The dog is going to sniff you, and he might give you a kiss!'” That quick smooch can be a dog’s way of giving your child the thumbs up, or the canine way of getting to know you better.
Teach kids manners. Safe and happy interactions between kids and dogs have a lot to do with “teaching kids gentleness and respect at a very young age,” So be sure you teach your little one to never push, hit, or tease a dog, or pull on a dog’s tail.
Always ask. Finally, the most important thing: Teach your child to always ask first before approaching a dog they don’t know.
One way to not help your child overcome a fear of dogs: Sometimes parents get a dog to help their children overcome a fear of dogs, but doing so is “a bad idea, It’s too much, too soon. The dog is everywhere. Even if you have a room where you keep the dog — which I don’t advise — the child doesn’t feel safe in that room.”